Protective Styles That Actually Protect: Choosing the Right Hairstyles for Natural Hair

Protective styling is one of the most common pieces of advice given to anyone caring for afro-textured/natural hair. But not all protective styles are truly protective. In fact, some can cause more harm than good. If done poorly, styles like braids, wigs, or twists may lead to breakage, scalp tension, and thinning edges.

So what exactly makes a style “protective”? And how can you choose styles that truly help your natural hair thrive, especially in the Nigerian climate and lifestyle?

This post will walk you through practical tips on protective styles that actually protect.

What Is a Protective Style?

A protective style is any hairstyle that:

Keeps the ends of your hair tucked away.

Reduces daily manipulation.

Helps retain length.

Gives your hair a break from styling stress.

Common examples include box braids, cornrows, wigs, twists, flat twists, and even simple buns.

Not every style qualifies. Here’s what to look for:

1. Low Tension

Your scalp should never feel sore or pulled tightly. If your braids or cornrows are too tight, they can cause permanent hair loss known as traction alopecia.

2. Access to the Scalp

You should still be able to moisturize your scalp and cleanse it lightly if needed. Styles that are too bulky or tightly packed can make this difficult.

3. Minimal Use of Heat

Styles that require flat ironing or blow drying on high heat can damage your strands. Aim for styles you can do on stretched hair or air-dried hair.

4. Not Left in Too Long

Even the best protective style can become harmful if left in too long. Most should not exceed 4 to 6 weeks. After that, buildup and tangles may set in.

Protective Styles That Work Well

1. Box Braids

A popular style across Nigeria. Choose medium-sized braids to avoid excessive weight on your roots. Make sure they’re not installed too tightly, especially around the hairline.

2. Two-Strand Twists

This style can be done on natural hair without extensions. It’s lightweight, easy to install and take down, and keeps the hair moisturized when sealed properly.

3. Cornrows

Classic and low-maintenance. Cornrows keep the hair stretched and are easy to moisturize. They can be worn on their own or under wigs.

4. Wigs (With Care)

Wigs can protect your hair as long as your real hair underneath is properly braided, moisturized, and not neglected. Wear a wig cap. Always let your hair and scalp breathe between installs. Wearing wigs consistently will thin out your edges.

5. Flat Twists or Roll-and-Tuck Styles

These styles keep your ends tucked in and work well for office, school, or everyday wear. They require little manipulation and are easy to refresh.

What to Avoid in Protective Styling

Overly tight styles: If it hurts, it is not protective.

Heavy extensions: These weigh down your roots and cause thinning.

Glue or bonding agents: Especially around the edges, these can weaken your hairline and pull out your edges.

Neglecting your hair under the style: Protective styles still need care.

Protective Style Care Routine

Moisturize every few days with a water-based leave-in or Moisturizing spray.

Cover your hair at night with a satin bonnet or scarf.

Cleanse the scalp lightly with diluted shampoo or a cleansing spray if the style is in for weeks.

Take breaks between hairstyles to let your scalp recover.

Protective styles are meant to help your hair grow and stay healthy, not stress it out. By choosing low-tension, breathable styles and keeping up with scalp care, you can enjoy the convenience and beauty of these styles while still achieving healthy natural hair goals.

Detangling Your Natural Hair : The Right Way to do it

Detangling natural hair is one of those steps that can either make or break your hair routine...literally. Done the wrong way, it leads to unnecessary breakage, split ends, and even hair loss. But when done right, detangling keeps your strands healthy, helps with length retention, and makes styling easier.

For afro-textured hair, detangling is not just about running a comb through the hair. It requires patience, the right products, and gentle tools. Here’s how to make detangling easier and more effective without damaging your hair.

Natural hair tangles easily because of its coily structure. Tangles can form from: dryness, product buildup, protective styles left in too long, sleeping without a scarf or bonnet.

If left alone, tangles can become knots that break the hair or lead to painful combing sessions. Regular, gentle detangling helps prevent that.

When to Detangle

During wash day: After applying conditioner or while deep conditioning

Before styling: Especially if you’re switching from one style to another

Before bedtime: If your hair is loose or in an afro puff, light detangling can help.

It is best to detangle when the hair is slightly damp and has some product slip. Dry detangling should be done with extra care or avoided if possible.

Best Tools for Detangling Natural Hair

1. Your Fingers: Finger detangling is the gentlest method. It allows you to feel and carefully work through knots without forcing the strands apart.

2. Wide-Tooth Comb: A must-have for natural hair. Look for one with rounded tips and smooth edges.

3. Detangling Brush: There are several natural hair-friendly brushes now available in Nigerian markets. Flexible brushes with staggered bristles glide through the hair more easily.

4. Spray Bottle: Filled with water or a mix of water and leave-in conditioner to keep the hair damp.

Step-by-Step Detangling Routine

1. Section the Hair

Divide your hair into 4 to 8 sections depending on thickness and length. Secure each section with clips or bands. Work on one section at a time to avoid confusion and tangling.

2. Apply Slip

Use a conditioner, leave-in, or detangling product that gives your hair "slip" (a slippery feel). This helps the strands glide past each other and reduces breakage.

3. Detangle from Ends to Roots

Start at the ends of the hair and work your way up to the roots. This reduces pulling and helps you deal with knots more gently.

4. Be Patient

If you come across a knot, don’t yank or pull. Apply more product and use your fingers to gently separate the strands. For stubborn tangles, you can use a pin tail comb to loosen the knot carefully.

5. Twist or Braid Each Section

Once a section is fully detangled, twist or braid it to prevent it from tangling again while you work on the rest of the hair.

What to Avoid:

Detangling dry hair without product: This causes snapping and split ends. 

Small-tooth combs: They rip through coily hair and cause breakage

Rushing: Detangling in a hurry leads to more harm than good. It's also better not to detangle your hair when you're tired.

Detangling is not something to dread. When you take your time, use the right tools, and treat your hair with care, it becomes a smooth and satisfying part of your hair care routine. Less breakage means more growth retention, and your hair will thank you for it.

Trimming Without Fear: How Often to Trim Natural Hair and Why It Matters.

Trimming is one of the most misunderstood aspects of natural hair care. Many people avoid it out of fear of losing length, but regular trims are essential for maintaining healthy, thriving hair. For afro-textured hair, especially in the Nigerian environment where humidity, dryness, and manipulation are common, trimming should be a routine part of your regimen—not a punishment.

This post breaks down why trimming is necessary, how often you should do it, and how to tell when it’s time.

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Why Trimming Is Important

Trimming does not make your hair grow faster. What it does is:

• Prevent breakage by removing weak, frayed ends
• Promote length retention by reducing split ends that travel up the strand
• Make styling easier by reducing tangles and knots
• Improve the appearance of your hair by making it look fuller and more defined
• Encourage healthy growth by removing damaged or thin ends that cause your hair to look unhealthy

Signs It’s Time to Trim Your Hair

You don’t need to follow a strict calendar. Instead, pay attention to how your hair looks and feels. These signs suggest it’s time for a trim:

• Rough, thin, or transparent ends
• Split ends that look like the tips are fraying
• Single-strand knots that make combing difficult
• Hair that tangles more easily than usual
• Styles don’t look as neat or defined as they used to
• Your ends feel dry no matter how much you moisturize.                                                            

How Often Should You Trim? There is no one-size-fits-all answer, but here are general guidelines: 

• Every 8 to 12 weeks if you style your hair frequently or use heat
• Every 3 to 4 months if you wear protective styles regularly and your ends are well cared for
• Twice a year if your hair is very low-maintenance and you rarely experience damage

If you notice damage before the next scheduled trim, don’t wait. It’s better to remove a little now than lose more length later due to breakage.

How to Trim Natural Hair.

You can trim your hair at home if you are comfortable, or visit a salon that understands natural hair. If trimming at home:

1. Use sharp hair shears only: Regular scissors will cause more damage
2. Work in sections: Make sure your hair is stretched or blown out for accuracy
3. Trim only what is needed: Start with a small amount, usually half an inch
4. Use natural lighting: This helps you see split or thin ends clearly

You can trim after a wash, during styling, or as part of your detangling process. The most important thing is consistency and care.

Trimming Myths to Ignore.

• “Trimming makes hair shorter.” Trimming removes unhealthy ends so you can retain more length over time.
• “You should never trim natural hair.” Not trimming leads to damaged ends and eventually breakage.
• “Hair will grow faster if you trim more often.” Trimming helps maintain healthy hair, but growth comes from the scalp.

Trimming is not the enemy of growth—it is a tool for healthy hair. Don’t be afraid to let go of damaged ends. When done correctly, trimming strengthens your hair care routine, makes your styles look better, and helps you achieve your long-term goals.

Oils and Butters: When and How to Use Them on Natural Hair

Contrary to popular belief, oils and butters do not moisturize hair. Instead, they: seal in existing moisture from water or a water-based product, create a protective barrier that helps reduce moisture loss, add softness and shine when applied to already moisturized hair and soothe the scalp, when massaged gently.

When Should You Use Oils?

You should use oils in your routine when:

You’ve just applied a water-based moisturizer and want to seal in hydration.

You need to soften dry ends between wash days.

You’re doing a scalp massage to encourage blood circulation.

You’re taking down a protective style and want to reduce breakage.

Light oils are best for sealing in moisture without buildup or scalp massages. Heavier oils can also be used to seal in moisture, especially on the ends.

When Should You Use Butters?

Hair butters are usually thicker and are best used for:

Twisting or braiding styles that need hold and definition.

Sealing in moisture on thicker, coarser hair.

Protecting ends when your hair is exposed to the weather.

Styling hair for a stretched look.

Butters should not be used as a daily moisturizer. They can weigh down the hair or cause buildup if used too frequently without proper cleansing.

Try layering, this is the key to moisture retention. A common method for applying products is the LOC or LCO method:

L: Liquid (usually water or leave-in conditioner)

O: Oil

C: Cream or butter

Or you can reverse it with LCO, if your hair responds better that way. Experiment and observe which method keeps your hair soft for longer.

Don’t Overdo It. Too much oil or butter can be bad. It can;

Block moisture from entering the hair.

Attract dirt and dust, especially in urban Nigerian environments.

Lead to scalp buildup.

Make hair greasy and difficult to style.

Use just enough to coat your strands lightly. A little goes a long way.

How to Remove Buildup

If you’ve used a lot of oils and butters, use a clarifying shampoo occasionally to fully clean your scalp and strands. Follow up with a deep conditioner to restore softness.

Whether you are buying oils and butters, choose unrefined or cold-pressed options if available. Make sure they are stored in cool, dry places. Avoid products with too many artificial ingredients or mineral oil.

Oils and butters can be powerful allies in your natural hair care routine when used correctly. They are not a replacement for water or conditioner but serve to lock in moisture and enhance the health of your strands. With balance and consistency, your hair can remain soft, manageable, and well-nourished.

I hope youve learned a thing or two. I'll see you on the next 😉.

Gentle Wash Day Routines for Natural Hair

Wash day is essential to healthy natural hair care. However, many people dread it because it often feels long and exhausting. Worse still, using the wrong products or techniques can leave the hair dry, tangled, or even damaged. The goal of wash day is not just to clean the hair but to do so without stripping it of its natural oils or moisture.

For afro-textured hair, especially in the Nigerian climate where dust, sweat, and buildup are common, a gentle yet effective cleansing routine is key.

Gentle cleansing matters, because natural hair thrives when clean, but harsh shampoos and improper washing habits can: Strip away natural oils, leave the scalp itchy and dry, cause tangling and breakage and lead to buildup that prevents moisture from penetrating.

A gentle cleansing routine helps maintain the balance between a clean scalp and moisturized strands.

Signs Your Hair Needs Washing

It feels greasy or heavy.

The scalp is itchy or flaky.

Styling products are building up.

Curls are not responding to moisturizers.

There’s an unpleasant smell from sweat or humidity.

Depending on your lifestyle, wash your hair every two weeks to 4 weeks. If you sweat a lot or live in a dusty area, you might need to cleanse more frequently.

Steps for a Gentle Wash Day Routine

1. Pre-Poo Treatment (Optional but Beneficial)

Before shampooing, apply a light oil or conditioner to dry hair. This softens the hair and protects it from drying out during the wash. Let it sit for at least 15 to 30 minutes. Detangling can also be done at this stage to reduce breakage during washing.

2. Use a Mild Cleanser

Use a sulfate-free shampoo or a mild cleanser that lifts dirt and product buildup without stripping the scalp. Focus on the scalp while washing, not the strands. As you rinse, the suds will run down the hair and clean it gently.

3. Rinse Thoroughly With Lukewarm Water

Avoid hot water as it can dry out your hair. Lukewarm water helps to lift dirt while still preserving moisture.

4. Follow With a Conditioner

After cleansing, use a moisturizing conditioner to soften the hair and restore hydration. Let it sit for a few minutes before rinsing. Finger detangle or use a wide-tooth comb to gently remove knots while the conditioner is in your hair.

5. Deep Condition Regularly

Every two to four weeks, replace your regular conditioner with a deep conditioner or hair mask. This helps repair any damage and deeply nourishes your strands. Cover your hair with a plastic cap and let the conditioner sit for 20 to 30 minutes. Rinse thoroughly.

After washing, moisture Is key Once the hair is clean, gently blot excess water with a soft towel or old t-shirt. Apply a leave-in conditioner or water-based moisturizer, followed by oil or butter to seal in the moisture.

Helpful Tips for Wash Day

Section your hair before washing to make the process easier and prevent tangles.You can wash the hair in loose twists.

Avoid piling your hair on your head while shampooing, it causes tangling.

Be patient when detangling. Start from the ends and work your way up.

Always dry your hair gently. Avoid wringing or rubbing it roughly.

Keep your tools clean. Wash your combs and brushes regularly to avoid reintroducing dirt.

Wash day does not have to be overwhelming. With the right approach, it can be a nourishing and satisfying part of your hair care journey. The key is to cleanse gently, condition deeply, and protect the moisture you’ve added. Over time, your hair will become easier to manage and more resilient.

Moisture is Key

One of the biggest challenges for women with afro-textured hair is keeping it moisturized. Due to the tight curl pattern, it’s difficult for the natural oils produced by the scalp to travel down the length of the hair. This makes afro hair more prone to dryness, breakage, and dullness.

In Nigeria, where the climate ranges from hot and humid to dry and dusty depending on the region and season, keeping natural hair hydrated can be even more challenging. However, with the right practices, you can maintain soft, manageable, and healthy hair.

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Why Moisture Matters

Moisture is what keeps natural hair elastic, soft, and less prone to breakage. Without adequate hydration:

Hair becomes brittle and breaks easily

Styling becomes difficult and painful

Growth retention becomes harder

Moisture is not just about water alone. It is also about locking that water in so it stays in the hair strand for as long as possible.

How to Keep Natural Hair Moisturized

1. Start With Water

Water is the best moisturizer for natural hair. If your hair is dry, the first step is to reintroduce water. Spritz your hair daily or every other day using a spray bottle filled with water or a water-based leave-in. Lightly mist the ends, then massage in the moisture. Apply moisturizers on damp hair to seal in hydration. Avoid soaking your hair every day. A light misting is enough to keep the strands supple.

2. Use the LOC or LCO Method

These are popular methods for layering products to retain moisture. LOC stands for Liquid, Oil, Cream. LCO stands for Liquid, Cream, Oil.

Here’s how it works:

Liquid: Start with water or a water-based leave-in conditioner

Oil: Follow with a natural oil like coconut oil, olive oil, or castor oil to trap in the water

Cream: End with a creamy moisturizer to seal everything in

You can experiment with both methods and see which your hair responds to best.

3. Deep Condition Regularly

Deep conditioning helps restore moisture lost during washing and styling. Aim to deep condition every two weeks or at least once a month. Use moisture-rich conditioners. Cover your hair with a shower cap and let the treatment sit for 20 to 30 minutes before rinsing.

4. Avoid Drying Ingredients

Some shampoos and styling products contain ingredients that strip moisture from the hair. Avoid products with:

- Sulfates

- Alcohols (drying types like isopropyl alcohol)

- Mineral oil and petroleum (they coat the hair but don’t hydrate it)

Instead, choose products labeled “moisturizing,” “hydrating,” or “sulfate-free.”

5. Cover Your Hair at Night

Satin or silk scarves and pillowcases prevent moisture loss. Cotton absorbs moisture from your hair and causes friction, leading to dryness and breakage. A satin bonnet helps retain the hydration added during the day.

6. Protective Styling

Styles like twists, braids, and cornrows protect the ends of your hair and reduce daily manipulation. However, the hair still needs moisture even in these styles. Spray a light mix of water and oil on your scalp and hair regularly while in protective styles.

Bonus Tip:

In hot regions like Abuja or the North, moisture can evaporate quickly. Use heavier creams or butters like shea butter to seal in moisture.

In humid regions like Lagos or Port Harcourt, the air has more moisture. Light products may be more comfortable. Avoid product buildup by washing your hair regularly.

During harmattan, which is extremely dry and dusty, moisture retention becomes even more important. Increase your deep conditioning treatments and protective styling during this season.

Moisture is the foundation of healthy natural hair. With consistent hydration and protective habits, afro-textured hair can remain soft, manageable, and full of life, even in Nigeria’s changing climate. Pay attention to how your hair feels and adjust your routine accordingly.

Natural Haircare Routine : Easy Guide

Having a regular hair care routine is essential for maintaining healthy afro-textured hair. Because this hair type is naturally drier and more delicate, it thrives when given consistent attention. Creating a routine does not have to be complicated. With the right habits, even the busiest woman can keep her hair strong, moisturized, and growing.

This guide breaks down a simple and effective natural hair care routine into daily, weekly, and monthly steps that can fit into the average Nigerian woman’s lifestyle.

Daily Hair Care Routine

Your daily routine should focus on moisture and protection. Afro-textured hair loses moisture easily, especially in hot or dry weather.

What to do daily:

1. Moisturize

Use a water-based leave-in spray or lightly spritz your hair with plain water. Then seal in the moisture with a natural oil or light butter like shea butter. Pay attention to the ends of your hair, which are the oldest and most fragile.

2. Protect your hair at night

Before bed, cover your hair with a satin or silk scarf or bonnet. Cotton absorbs moisture and causes friction that can lead to breakage. If you can’t wear a bonnet, sleep on a satin pillowcase.

3. Style gently

If you are wearing your hair out, avoid styles that require too much manipulation. Choose low-maintenance options like buns, puffs, or twists.

Weekly/Bi-Weekly Hair Care Routine

Once or twice a week, dedicate time to deeper care. This helps remove product buildup, restore moisture, and keep the scalp clean.

What to do weekly:

1. Wash your hair

Use a sulfate-free shampoo to gently cleanse your scalp and hair. Focus on your scalp and let the shampoo run down the length of your hair. If your scalp isn’t dirty or sweaty, you can co-wash (use conditioner only) as an alternative.

2. Condition

After washing, apply a moisturizing conditioner and detangle your hair gently using your fingers or a wide-tooth comb. Work in sections to avoid breakage.

3. Deep condition

Deep conditioning restores strength and moisture. Get a good deep conditioner. Cover your hair with a shower cap for at least 20 to 30 minutes before rinsing.

4. Moisturize and style

Once your hair is clean and conditioned, apply the LOC method (Liquid, Oil, Cream) to lock in moisture. Then style your hair in a way that protects your ends and reduces manipulation.

Monthly Hair Care Routine

Monthly routines involve maintenance that supports long-term hair health.

What to do monthly:

1. Clarify your scalp

Over time, products can build up on your scalp and prevent moisture from reaching your hair. Use a clarifying shampoo or a simple apple cider vinegar rinse (mixed with water) to cleanse your scalp thoroughly.

2. Trim your ends

If you notice split ends or excessive tangling at the ends of your hair, trim them. You don’t need to cut a lot—just a light dusting to remove damaged ends. Healthy ends help retain length.

3. Review your routine

Check what’s working and what isn’t. Are your products keeping your hair soft? Is your style too tight? Use this time to make small adjustments.

Extra Tips for Building a Routine That Works

Listen to your hair: If it feels dry or brittle, it may need more moisture. If it feels greasy, you may be using too much product.

Keep it simple: Start with a basic routine and adjust as needed. You don’t need expensive products or complicated steps.

Be consistent: Regular care produces the best results over time.

Afro-textured hair needs love and patience. A daily, weekly, and monthly routine helps your hair stay moisturized, healthy, and growing. With a little planning and consistency, you can keep your natural hair thriving.

The next post in the series will cover moisture. See you then.

How to Care for Your Natural Hair

So you've had your big chop and have now stepped into the world of fros. You've tried to google how to care for your new fro but you're finding all the information overwhelming. Well, let's start with the basics.

MOISTURE

Natural hair loves moisture. Dryness is the enemy. Grab a moisturizer. If you can't go to the stores just yet, mix 8-parts water with 2-parts light oil, like sunflower oil in a spray bottle. Remember to shake up whenever you want to use it. However, to moisurise your hair properly, you'd need to follow a two or three-step process. It could be LOC - Liquid, Oil, Cream , LCO - Liquid, Cream, Oil or LC and LO, whichever you find out works best for your hair.

DETANGLING AND MANIPULATION

Detangling should be done after applying products with adequate slip, so the hair doesn't break. Combing should be done from the ends to the root, always gently, as any form of manipulation should be done gently. Do not detangle or comb dry.

STYLING

It is advisable to do low manipulation hairstyles. Tight hairstyles put a lot of tension on hair follicles and can cause you to lose hair especially around the edges. If you can, go to a Natural hair salon or find a Natural hair stylist. You could also learn to style your hair by yourself. There are a lot of tutorial videos on YouTube.

CONFIDENCE

Now wear your beautiful crown with confidence. Natural hair is beautiful, styled or not. You do not have to manipulate your hair into uncomfortable styles for it to be considered beautiful. Embrace the shrinkage and frizz. Do not let anyone put to down for wearing your hair. Most of all, enjoy your hair! 

Who Set These Standards For Beauty?

I don't know if it happens anywhere else but in Akure, going to market with your natural hair or without some extensions might mean you'll be nearly harassed by mobile stylists  every corner. You'll hear things like "Aunty you wan do your hair?" "Come make I do your hair, I go do am fine" etc. So, just wearing my hair is not fine? It can be so annoying at times. 

We really need to change the notion that our hair needs to be "fixed" to look beautiful. Our hair is beautiful just the way it is and we(Nigerians and Africans) should learn to embrace it in its entirety.

Let's wear our hair with pride. After all, it's the one we were born with. It's also the one we're returning to God with. I don't believe anyone is going to be fixing any weaves in hell or heaven, depending on where the person ends up. I strongly suggest they make it to heaven by the way😀. The other place is not cool(no pun intended and in all seriousness). How did I get here sef🤦.

Anyways, you guys get the point. Let me come and be going😀.

African Threading Will Not Grow Your Hair!

Hey guys, I'm back again. And I'll be talking about a particular protective style and the myth surrounding it. You might have figured it out from the title already 😀.

So, for the last time(I hope), African threading does not grow hair! 

There is no hairstyle in this life that grows hair. I'm tired of this myth being flung around. 

Kiko, just like any good protective style can help you retain length. Hair that is left alone will retain length. It's why long-term protective styles(3 -6 weeks) are great for length retention.However, Kiko will not make your hair grow. It will only keep your hair a stretch when you loosen it(maybe this is why they think it grows hair). Moisturise or wash it and it's back to its normal shrunken state.

So, you may notice some growth. That's because as hair usually does, it grew. While it was in the protective style, it grew. It wouldn't have mattered whether it was twists, fixing, braids or adimole(they say this one grows hair too) 🤣🤣.

Y'all  need to stop. Is it everything you hear you'll believe? Hair growth is science not magic. Please! 

Can you people tell I'm pissed🙄😌😂😂😂😂.

But you know I love you guys😍🥰🤗.

Till next time, bye 👋. 

Natural Updos

 Updos are always in. Natural Updos especially , will never go out of fashion.  They're for every woman who wants to switch up their everyday look. They can be worn to official functions, weddings, birthday parties etc. 

I particularly love textured Updos because they look gorgeous, different and a bit extravagant. No matter the face shape of the wearer, they usually turn out great. 

Enjoy these pictures of some of the Updos I've created. 

See you soon😊.

My Very First Perm Rods Set

Hey guys, how you doing? I finally got round to doing my first perm rods set. I stumbled on some cold wave rods sometime ago. Finally! After months, abi years of searching for them here in Akure. I got a pack of twelve for 150 naira. I know right! I was not expecting it to be so cheap.

I unravelled the rods the next day and got this.

 I got a bit of tangling though while trying to unravel. Some strands of hair got ripped off and remained on the rods. That's when I noticed the rods have some raised points on them. They dont have a smooth surface. I'd have to be more careful the next time I use them, so I don't lose hair.

                                           By the next day, see what was left of the curls.

I decided to put my hair in a quick protective style after the hair started to shrink and poof.

That's it guys. Till next time.