Monday 26 May 2014

Any Awards for the Most Careless Person on Earth?

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In 2012, when I almost lost my phone after I left it in Church, I concluded that I am the most careless person I know. Two years later, I am still the most careless person I know. I did it again. On Friday, I left my phone where I went to eat. Suffice to say, when I went back, I did not find it. I was not as lucky as the first time. So, the same day I received news that the files on my crashed computer hard drive could not be retrieved, I lost my phone. Just how much information can one lose in a day? I was really sad and wanted to cry, but tears wouldn't come. How does one stop being careless? I need serious help. Any drugs to take? :D

Seriously though, my carelessness has got to stop. So yes, I think I take the top spot on the list of careless people. Any awards for me, anyone?

Good Looks Are Overrated?

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I love beauty. Who doesn't abi? I pay special attention to aesthetics. I take special note of facial features, physique, figure etc. I people watch. A lot! I love looking at people. Admiring God's creation, I call it.
I've always said I did not want to marry a man that I couldn't just gaze at his face while slept. My man needs to be beautiful or at least easy on the eyes. I've always liked fine guys. I love them tall, lanky, sweet-faced. Yes, that's the picture of my ideal man.

However, I've been thinking I might need to give up that picture. Lately, I've been saying to myself "good looks are overrated". Why? Look at it this way, if I've got a really great guy that I know is the one, and he does not fit that picture, it would be insane of me to keep waiting for the guy who fits the picture, right? Someone said " love comes in different packages". I could also argue for the other side that God works with our desires, so He'd give me what I want. A fine lanky guy, who loves Him and loves me. Dassall, I no get big eye.

So, I have to let let my fantasy go? It's God's will for me that matters, whether the man na hunk or not. Good looks will not pay the bills, abi?( I say abi a lot, I know :D). Unless, the man's a model :D. But I know what to do.

I'll get over my fears that the absence of good looks in my man will get in the way of my giving myself completely to him. Vain? *shrugs* That if he is not fine, I might be repulsed by him. Yeah, I have issues. I'll get over my fantasy. After all, there are only so many O. T Fagbenles :D. I'll choose God's will over fine guy, if I had to choose. Oh well.                                                                         

Did I make any sense with this post? Pardon me if I didn't. #Ranting tins.

Stay blessed.

Thursday 8 May 2014

7 + The One

I love weddings. I really do. But after being Maid of honor at my friend's
wedding in 2012, I said I was done being in bridal trains. Alas, I have
been in two others this year. Oh, I love being a part of the big day of
friends and then a few strangers( How people can ask someone they barely
know to be in their bridal train is beyond me). Oh well. Me wey gree nko? I
just find it hard to turn people down. I have to learn.
So my title says...you know what it says. I have worn six bride's maid
dresses. Reminds me(not) of the movie, 21 dresses. If I add my flower girl
dress, that's seven. However, I want to wear one more dress and not one more bridal dress. I want to wear the one dress. My wedding dress.
So here's a reminder to Mr "very near future husband". Hey Mister, haf you heard? It's been fun wearing the seven
dresses but I do not want to wear bride's maid dresses any more. I want to wear the one now. I guess what I'm saying is, hurry up and make the dresses 7+ the One!


PS: I'd make an exception for you Gesiere, only if you hurry and have your wedding before mine. :D

Friday 2 May 2014

Enough is Enough!

Maybe I should change my blog name to " The Laziest Blogger Ever", *covers face. Gosh! I am so ashamed of myself. Do I even still have blog visitors? Chei! Happy new month people even if boko haram does not want us to be happy. Last month was crazy, this month is starting crazy. While my heart is still breaking over our missing girls, I get news of another bomb blast. Kilonshele? Everyone is calling Jonathan. I follow o. Does he need to step down for all of this to stop? He should consider it o. I am weary from hearing all the bad news. Some people say we should stop praying. What else are we going to do other than pray to God and make noise so government hears and does something? Abuja people, you are in our prayers. I don't even know what to say again. #Bringbackourgirls #Enoughisenough

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